new plan: literally anyone caught making fun of bottoms no longer gets ass
Someone finally said it. Like, what’s wrong with being a bottom? Tops are the ones who want to fuck bottoms, so why would they make fun of something that they wanna fuck? It makes no sense.
i can tell you the reason!!!
tops who criticize bottoms are suffering from deeply internalized homophobia and misogyny!
essentially, since being the receptive partner in sex is seen from a heteronormative point of view as being the feminine one, those who suffer from internalized homophobia (which is a direct result of being conditioned by a heteronormative society) also view it as the inferior one. the respect afforded to women in a sexual society like ours (so basically the same amount of respect given to a lamp or a fleshlight because we’re terrible) is then afforded to the bottoms in a male/male sexual encounter/relationship like that one
hence the terrible treatment of bottoms, ultimately a result of a heavily patriarchal society that has conditioned our men to view any and all things feminine (even those things that are only viewed as feminine because they say they’re feminine) as being shameful or lesser